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"Love is our true essence. Love has no limitations of caste, religion, race or nationality. We are all beads strung together on the same thread of love." Amma
Amma was born in a poor fishing village in Kerala, Southern India, in 1953. Even as a small child, she was unique. Without any prompting, she was deeply spiritual, and the intensity of her compassion was remarkable. Because Amma was different, though, she was misunderstood, and as a result her family mistreated her. By the end of Amma’s fourth year of formal schooling, she withdrew from school to help at home because her mother was ill. Amma became the family caretaker. She worked long and exhausting hours, often from 4:00 in the morning until 10:00 or later at night, cooking and cleaning at home, and roaming the local village to collect leftover vegetable peels and rice gruel for the family cows. At the end of the day she would become absorbed in meditation or compose devotional songs. Amma showed a depth of feeling and caring for others far beyond her years. |
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| She saw many things that troubled her heart - how some people were starving while others held on to wealth sufficient to feed many generations. She saw that many people were sick and suffering from intense pain, unable to afford a single painkiller. And she noticed that many of the elderly were neglected and treated harshly by their own families. Her empathy made the pain of others unbearable for her. Though just a child, she began to contemplate the question of suffering. She asked herself, "Why do people suffer? What is the underlying cause of suffering?" Whatever the cause, one thing was clear: from the roots of her being, she wanted to reach out, to comfort and uplift those who were in pain, whether physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual. She would share her food with the starving, and she would bathe and clothe the elderly who had no one to look after them. She was punished when she gave away the family's food and belongings to the poor, but nothing would deter her. People began noticing that there was something extraordinary about this young girl, that she was completely selfless, that she dedicated every moment of her life to caring for others, and that she radiated toward everyone a love that was unconditional and boundless. By the time Amma was in her early twenties, the suffering of others so deeply touched her heart that her only desire was to comfort those around her. The love she felt began expressing itself in how she greeted people. Amma would spontaneously embrace everyone who came to her - young, old, rich, poor, men, women - all people. Consoling and comforting others became her life's mission. But it was not an ordinary mission of an ordinary person - an hour or two each day devoted to taking care of others.For Amma it became a life dedicated to nothing but sacrifice and love, constantly, inexorably giving of herself to ease the pain of others. Soon people began to flock to Amma because of her deep love and concern. With each successive year, the numbers seeking her comfort grew, and so she began reaching out to those in need beyond her own village. In 1987 Amma traveled to the United States on the first of what would become a yearly tour to comfort those outside of India. Since that time her schedule has expanded to include annual tours to a staggering number of cities and communities in southern and northern India, the U.S., Europe, Asia, Japan, and Australia. She has also taken her message of love to Russia, the Middle East, Africa, and the list continues to grow. In each location Amma listens to the problems of those who confide in her, responding with compassion, advice,and encouragement. |
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She takes thousands of people, day after day, to her motherly lap, wiping their tears, giving them her wise and loving guidance, and offering solace. The people who come are from all walks of life, all socioeconomic strata and all religious backgrounds - the homeless and the wealthy; the professional and the day laborer; those who are sick or disabled and professional athletes; Muslims, Jews, Christians, Hindus, Buddhists and people of no particular religion. Rare as it is to find a person full of unconditional love, it is rarer still to find one who expresses this love in the language natural to every human being: a mother's embrace. Amma receives each one as her very own child with equal love and vision. The story is often told, and has been captured on tape, of Amma receiving a leper with pus-infected wounds covering his body, of her compassionate embrace and kissing of a person whose stench caused others to faint.
How many people has Amma embraced? That's the
question a scorekeeper asks, but not one Amma can
answer, for she has never kept track. If there is a person
nearby, Amma will embrace them. If there are hundreds,
she will hug them all. If there are thousands, even tens
of thousands, she will not leave until she has hugged all
who seek her embrace. Not occasionally, but frequently,
Amma embraces people from ten in the morning until
four or five in the afternoon, without a break, and then
returns three hours later to embrace others, one after
another, for literally the rest of the night. It is not at all
unusual for Amma to move from her chair only after the
sun has risen the next morning. Twelve-, sixteen-, even
twenty-hour "darshan" sessions (literally, "meeting")
are not infrequent.
In India, where Amma receives her children both at
home in her ashram and as she travels throughout the
country, crowds sometimes fill stadiums. When this diminutive
woman walks out onto the stage, turns towards
the waiting crowd, raises her arms above her head to
acknowledge the divinity in each person there, and then
prostrates, touching her head to the floor in humility,
offering herself to them all-your heart stops: will she
really hug twenty, thirty, forty thousand people before
she leaves? Yes. And she will listen to them, advise them,
stroke their cheeks, wipe their tears, laugh with them.be
the Mother to each one. How she can do this for each
person in sometimes less than a few seconds (this is
what such crowds necessitate) is inexplicable. But that
it touches people is clear, for year after year they come
back to taste again those few seconds. w
In the West, the crowds are somewhat smaller; there
might be only two or three thousand at a program. Amma
could finish in a few hours and take some much-needed
rest. But she does not, for thoughts of her own body's
needs are far from her mind; she sees only the opportunity
to spend more time with each of her children,
and that is what she does. Instead of embracing at the
grueling pace of one person each few seconds, she
can more slowly and gently draw a whole family to her
lap, rub the mother's back, playfully pull the ears of the
father in mock scolding, lift their baby high and bring
it close and bite its chin, laughing and playing. She
mothers all of them. Instead of finishing by midnight or
one in the morning, she fills the hours with all the love
she can put into them, and once again is likely to leave
the hall after sunrise. |
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"You are all blessed because you are constantly showered with the blessings
of Amma. Her divine mission should be your inspiration to make right use of
life and add value to society."
Dr A.P.G. Abdul Kalam, President of India, talking to students of Amrita
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"The world today needs proof that our human values are useful, that such
qualities as compassion, selflessness, renunciation and humanity have the
power to create a great and prosperous society. Amma's work provides us
with the much-needed proof."
Mr Atal Behari Vaipayee, former Prime Minister of India |
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"What I cherish most about Amma is that she not only talks the talk, and is
an embodiment of unconditional love, but she expresses that love in action.
She walks the talk! Amma is the change she wishes to see in our world!"
Ms. Yolanda King, Director, Martin Luthor King Jr Center, USA |
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"W"I feel it's a great honor to share a platform with a woman who is so
remarkable, and who is the very embodiment of goodness. She believes that
God does not discriminate between the sexes, and I believe she stands here
in front of us, God's love in a human body."
Dr. Jane Goodall, world-renowned primatologist and recipient of the 2001
Gandhi-King Award for Non-violence, at the United Nations (Amma was the
recipient of this award for 2002) |
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"The principles that Amma teaches can be applied in all countries. With her
embrace she is bringing solace to mutitudes of people everywhere."
Mrs. Rita Uosukainen, Finnish Councilor of State |
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"Amma, your embrace has become a worldwide treasure sought by princes and
peasants, women and men, babies and frail elderly. Your embrace is not just
to comfort the suffering, but is a gift of strength and spiritual energy
to all who work to embrace the world."
Rev. Dr. Joan Brown Campbell, former Executive Director of the United
States Office of the World Council of Churches |
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